Let’s move further. Our direction is how to build your self – confidence. In our previous article how to be more confident we began to mark the achievements. To make praising much easier, we have to do the following step. We will not compare ourselves with anybody.
We do not compare our boyfriend or husband with other men. We do not compare our kids with friends’ kids. We do not compare our dogs with neighbours’ dogs. We do not compare our house with our boss’s house.
And the most important, we never compare ourselves with anybody. Keep on saying: «I am the only one and I am unique». It is a very important step how to build confidence.
It is always possible to find someone who is cleverer, kinder, more beautiful and successful. Comparison is the fastest way to lose the confidence. But our aim is to gain confidence and not to lose it. That is why we will not begin to compare ourselves to others.
Each person is the whole world. Imagine that you are the centre of the Universe, and all the rest rotates around you. It’s cool! Do you really want to pay attention what surrounds you? It’s just a smeared background and you are in the center.
You must bear it in mind. You are in the center and all people and events are around you. It’s quite natural that it’s not easy to overcome old habits. They make us doubt again and again. Only your self-esteem can help you. It takes time and efforts to get new habits and a new vision of your own life.
That is the next step of the training – how to build confidence.
To be continued …